Tuesday, June 30, 2009

CWW 5 Love Language

Posted by pisces girl at 2:32 AM

Hello~! I am back again~! Today special is 5 Love Language

Every people will have different type of love language. Somehow, despite all the best intentions, our messages crossed and never seemed to land. Therefore, misunderstanding, miscommunication and hurt feelings built up until the relationship forced to end. Most of the time, ending occurred not because lack of love, but he/she or even you were not feeling loved.

So, if we are able to know our love language and your partner's one, it will hep us more in developing better relationship. There are 5 types which are words of affirmation, receiving gifts, physical touch, quality time and finally acts of service.

1. Words of affirmation - If this is your love language, you will feel happy when your partner give you a genuine compliment. If without the affirmation, you may feel insecure. You will feel loved when your partner expresses appreciation for the small thing you do.

2. Receiving gifts - If you are this type of people, you might need visual symbols of affection. However, it does not mean that you are materialistic as you may simply respond to tangible illustration of love in relationship. A home-made card or small gift can speak volumes if it is suited to the recipient.

3. Physical touch - It means that you need bodily contact. It does not mean sex intercourse or intimacy, this love language may included all type of touch from holding hand, hugs, kisses to cuddling. However, you must first identified what kind of touch are pleasant and what are irritating so that you don't piss him/her off. ^^

4. Quality time - If quality time is your primary love language, you will feel neglected without time spent specifically focused on each other or doing something together.You enjoy sharing thing that you like with he/she especially it is about something that they passionate about too...

5. Acts of service - If this is your dominant love language, you feel loved when your partner do something pleasure or smooth to you. You will be glad receiving his/her helping hand. For example, doing chores, cooking dinner, taking care of something you used to do as responsibility or serve you a hot drink when you feel cool without being asked.

As a conclusion, each people will have different type of love language. If you are able to find out what you would like your partner to do for you and communicate about it. It will definitely help you both leading to a happier life. ^@^

 

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